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The Vine: August 29, 2012
I can't decide if I should try for something, or just let it go and figure it wasn't meant to be. And if I do try, how? I have been on a team at work for about 20 months; about 6 months ago realized...
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The Vine: September 5, 2012
I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, living together for 2+ of those years. Near the beginning of our relationship I broke up with him over a differing opinion on the topic of parenthood (I've...
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The Vine: September 26, 2012
I have suddenly found myself in a situation that requires some objectivity from helpful outsiders. I live in a smallish town and, regardless of the city's size, the lesbian community is always small...
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The Vine: November 14, 2012
The good news first: I found out two days ago I will be offered my dream job. I have a boyfriend whom I've been dating for almost a decade and have lived together with for years, and we both love each...
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The Vine: January 9, 2013
Guy and I are graduate students in the same program and have all the same friends. We'd been dating on-and-off for about a year and broke things off last week. If I'm honest, it was always pretty...
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The Vine: February 20, 2013
If your new boyfriend tells you he's taking an acne medication but you suspect for various reasons that it's an antidepressant, but you don't push it because you've only known each other a few weeks...
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The Vine: February 27, 2013
I need some dating guidance. I recently opened an online dating profile and hit it off right away with one of my matches. We had been communicating on the site for about a week when he asked if I...
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The Vine: March 6, 2013
I'm attending a local community college and working in a student leadership position. I met a younger guy about nine months ago in a class I was a TA in last winter quarter. We got to know each other...
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The Vine: March 27, 2013
I'm on the brink of turning thirty-one years old. As much as I claim to be a misanthrope I'm actually super-duper nice to about 99% of the people I encounter. A lot of them happen to be male. I don't...
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The Vine: April 10, 2013
My husband and I have been married for three years and have a baby on the way. We have a recurring issue in our relationship that I would really like to resolve with finality. I work a traditional...
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The Vine: August 7, 2013
So, here's the deal. I'm by nature a rather impatient over-thinker, prone to imagining worst-case scenarios, which often turn out to be right. I'm perfectly willing to acknowledge that they become...
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The Vine: August 21, 2013
My friend Catherine (36) and her husband Scot (38) have been married for about a year and a half now. It is her first marriage and his third. He has always been a mean, mood-swing-y,...
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The Vine: August 28, 2013
In honor of my wonderful friend A's birthday this week, I decided to ask a question that has kept me up nights for almost a decade. A and I met online nine years ago this month (thanks, former...
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The Vine: October 30, 2013
My boyfriend's younger sister is 22. She has lived her whole life in her parents' house in a rural town. After struggling to find a career she's interested in, she's now working as a nurse at the same...
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The Vine: January 8, 2014
My boyfriend wants me to take his last name when we get married. I don't. We are at a stalemate. Briefly: We live 1500 miles apart. We used to date casually when I was home from university in the...
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The Vine: January 29, 2014
I have a family-finances dilemma. My husband is…kind of a cheapskate (he gets it from his dad, who is a definite cheapskate, long story). In his case, maybe "overly frugal" would be a better term. I...
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The Vine: February 12, 2014
I've been dating my boyfriend now for about three months. He's the friend of a friend's brother whom I met a little before I graduated college this past spring. He'd just got out of the military and...
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The Vine: February 19, 2014
A few years ago, my life went off the rails in a pretty spectacular fashion. Years of abusing prescription painkillers led to an arrest and the loss of my job of over a decade. Cut to a year or so...
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The Vine: February 21, 2014
I'm a recently divorced (boo/yay) gal in her early thirties looking for some good reads to help me keep believing in the magic of love. Something in between classics like Jane Eyre (too heavy and...
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The Vine: February 26, 2014
My boyfriend is having some ongoing employment problems and I hope you can help me with how to deal with them because I feel like I'm really struggling. His recent history in a nutshell: Four years...
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